Three Nothing Rules:
1. Nothing below the neck
2. Nothing under clothes
3. Nothing lying down
SET DEFINITE BOUNDARIES TO DETERMINE HOW FAR IS TOO FAR
As you consider this, you need to realize that sex is far more
than sexual intercourse. No doubt you have seen this on television
and the movies. A sexual encounter usually begins with hot passionate
kissing and the progresses as follows: Passionate
Kissing
Intimate Touching
Removing Clothes
Sexual Intercourse
One young woman tells the story of how she and her boyfriend
had been dating for three years and were committed to abstinence.
Then one night they suddenly had sex. This sounded strange,
so I questioned her: "You mean the two of you had been completely
committed to abstinence for three years, and then one night,
without warning, you had sex?" "Yes," she replied.
This still sounded strange, so I again questioned her: "You
mean you had never kissed passionately, touched under clothes,
or removed your clothes?".
"Oh sure, we had done all that. But we were committed to
abstinence." No. They were not committed to abstinence.
Everything they were doing was preparing their minds and bodies
for sexual intercourse. By kissing passionately, touching
intimately, removing clothes and then suddenly stopping, this
couple was no doubt feeling tremendous frustration. This frustration
was going to eventually cause them to break up or go all the
way.
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